Fear and Love are to core drivers to boundaries. Fear causing us to run from negative consequences and love driving us towards positive relationship and outcomes.
One without the other produces toxic relationships. Love or fear directed in the wrong manner produces unhealthy patterns and cycles.
Fear negative results drives us from wrong doing–but that must be coupled with love to do go towards others.
Through understanding some basic frameworks by which we can judge our boundaries and relationship–we are able to the see more clearly how larger system of society ought to function in a health manner.
We have to know WHO we are serving and WHO we are not.
What is our responsibility and what is NOT.
What can we expect from the other party—and what we CANNOT.
If we can not frame our personal worlds correctly we fall into codependent relationships (where we need others to need us) in order to find value and security.
This fosters FREEDOM. Freedom to know what we are pursing, purpose in pursing goals and serving others—WHILE having the independence to know are not responsible FOR other people—but we do and a responsibility TO other people.
Stay tuned for the next episode where we talk about the frame work and spheres and domains of societies and how they all are designed to function interdependently . . . and what happens one they overstep their domains.
Sources and additional Reading:
http://www.webster.edu/student-counseling/problems/codependent.html
https://proactive12steps.com/codependency/
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